You will not be expected to do anything you don't want to do nor will you be expected to get naked, or engage in any sort of activity with people you don't know or people you don't want to interact with. One of the nice things about play parties is that they tend to be no-pressure environments. This could be overwhelming! Will I have to get naked? Will people do kinky things to me? You may see people you personally find extremely attractive, and people you don't.
Forget clichéd Hollywood stereotypes the people who go to play parties are real people from all different walks of life. While we're on the subject-you'll probably see a lot of different kinds of people as well. You'll find that play parties tend to be respectful of a wide range of different kinds of activities mutual respect and consideration go a long way. Common sense applies here don't touch stuff without asking. You might see all sorts of neat, unusual, cool, strange, or otherwise interesting implements. This is probably the single most basic premise of a public play environment people are there to play, but that doesn't necessarily mean they're there to play with you. Don't touch other people without clear permission. Don't make assumptions about people's relationship or sexual status, or about their availability.It's important to keep a few things in mind about that: You may also see a variety of sex acts, depending on the party, the people, and the particular rules at that party. At parties which permit nudity, which are usually play parties that take place at private clubs or in people's homes, you will quite likely see people who are naked. Play parties may have specific rules about no sex, or safer sex practices, or anything that might draw blood it all depends on the specific party. Depending on the play party, you may see just about anything, including nudity, sex, cupping, cropping, caning, fire play, needle play, play piercing, or just about anything else. If the play party is being hosted in a place like a bar or nightclub, that's likely to be the extent of what you see.Īt different venues, such as dungeons or private play parties, the rules will likely be quite different. You might, if the venue is physically large enough and the people in the local BDSM community are interested and skilled, see people using singletail whips such as bullwhips. You will probably see people being spanked or flogged. At a fetish night hosted by a nightclub, for example, it's likely that nudity won't be allowed, so what you'll probably see is people dressed in fetish wear spanking or flogging each other, or people being tied up, things like that.Ī private club or party, on the other hand, might have completely different restrictions a place like that is more likely to permit nudity, for example. In most states, public spaces like bars and nightclubs will be subject to adult laws regulating things like sex and nudity, so you won't likely see either one. What you will see at a play party depends a great deal on what kind of party it is. Hell, I've been a veteran kinkster for decades, and I still remember how intimidated I felt the first couple of times I saw any sort of public play! Like all new and unfamiliar things, your first BDSM play party might feel a bit intimidating or awkward. Sounds intimidating! What goes on at a play party? Some play parties are hosted at sex or BDSM specific clubs. Some play parties are hosted at clubs or bars that don't otherwise cater specifically to the BDSM community, and might be open to the general public. Some play parties are private, invitation-only events. Large cities are likely to have public dungeons where people can go and socialize, play, or both. Sounds straightforward, right? It's a little more complicated than that, because there are a lot of different kinds of play parties, but in a nutshell that's what they all have in common.įor example, a night club or bar might have a 'fetish night' where people are encouraged to dress in fetishwear and play or a club that caters specifically to BDSM folks might host regular play nights. A "play party" is a gathering of people who are interested in BDSM for the purpose of engaging in BDSM activities.
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